Maintaining the urge as the first time

[JeffLimSS03]

A friend of mine confide with me an sex issue with his wife.
He told me that he does't have the same high level of urge to have sex with wife, instead drop. He also sometime settle it by hands.
He ask me what solution as he felt that this is unhealthy for relationship.

Men like "fresh feel" i guess so i told him go online order some women wears and toys for his next sessions.

Welcome to input ideas to spice up the session with your spouse /partner

[JadedMale]

Easier for your "friend" to come himself to give more details
Could end up being low testosterone/libido, or just low energy lvl.

[JeffLimSS03]

Originally Posted by JadedMale

Easier for your "friend" to come himself to give more details
Could end up being low testosterone/libido, or just low energy lvl.

I didn't thought of that as one of the factor, ya i should get him to have a check up. Thanks

[Angmolover]

Originally Posted by JeffLimSS03

A friend of mine confide with me an sex issue with his wife.
He told me that he does't have the same high level of urge to have sex with wife, instead drop. He also sometime settle it by hands.
He ask me what solution as he felt that this is unhealthy for relationship.

Men like "fresh feel" i guess so i told him go online order some women wears and toys for his next sessions.

Welcome to input ideas to spice up the session with your spouse /partner

You must be some special kind of cheebye kia. Your friend confide something to you and you come here and blab it out to everyone on the forum. Your friend needs to upgrade and hang out with better people.

[WinterMelonTree]

1. your testosterone could have dropped due to age.

2. your wife's attractive could have dropped after childbirth or as she ages.

none of those could be solved by toys or lingerie.
give more specific details if you expects good advice.

[Angmolover]

Originally Posted by WinterMelonTree

1. your testosterone could have dropped due to age.

2. your wife's attractive could have dropped after childbirth or as she ages.

none of those could be solved by toys or lingerie.
give more specific details if you expects good advice.

Its not him. Its his "friend" LOL

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by JeffLimSS03

A friend of mine confide with me an sex issue with his wife. He told me that he does't have the same high level of urge to have sex with wife, instead drop. He also sometime settle it by hands.
He ask me what solution as he felt that this is unhealthy for relationship.

Does he want to have sex with other ladies? If yes, at least he is sure it's not a physical bodily issue. Is the wife maintaining her beauty and figure well? If not, that could a trigger for the drop in urge. If his wife sleeps outside with other men, will he still get angry? You don't want her so can others want her?

Many in unhappy marriages have this issue, even the ladies. They don't want to have sex with their spouse yet feel hurt and cheated when their spouse solve their sexual needs outside of the marriage.

[alover]

bang wife doggystyle while watch leaks.


anyway, friend equals ts.

[JeffLimSS03]

Originally Posted by Angmolover

You must be some special kind of cheebye kia. Your friend confide something to you and you come here and blab it out to everyone on the forum. Your friend needs to upgrade and hang out with better people.

Firstly, I came here to seek advice from goodwill samster.
Also did i mention my friend's name or any details about him.
Do you only have one and only friend, i guess so.
Or else you won't assume confidently on my post.

Secondly, this thread is about "adult discussion about sex"
Saw your last few post and it's mainly criticizing people.
Well... maybe you are brought up to understand the meaning of "discussion" this way

Third point is my friend has his own choice to decide who shall he be friend with.
He is also mature enough and doesn't need any "goodwill" guy to say how to choose friend.

[JeffLimSS03]

Originally Posted by WinterMelonTree

1. your testosterone could have dropped due to age.

2. your wife's attractive could have dropped after childbirth or as she ages.

none of those could be solved by toys or lingerie.
give more specific details if you expects good advice.

Hi thanks for your input
I don't comment on friend's wife look
I can say she is definitely not ugly and fat type
My friend had consult specialist and was informed that his body is well
Just that need to relax him more ofteh
So he had taken a 5 days leave for a short getaway with his wife

[JeffLimSS03]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Does he want to have sex with other ladies? If yes, at least he is sure it's not a physical bodily issue. Is the wife maintaining her beauty and figure well? If not, that could a trigger for the drop in urge. If his wife sleeps outside with other men, will he still get angry? You don't want her so can others want her?

Many in unhappy marriages have this issue, even the ladies. They don't want to have sex with their spouse yet feel hurt and cheated when their spouse solve their sexual needs outside of the marriage.

Thanks for your input

We did go mission together before his marriage, after marriage didn't heard of that. His wife is ok, not ugly or fat, i seldom say friend's wife pretty or beautiful because i find it sensitive.

I agree with you on the marriage part that some women is contradicting, maybe they are born to multi-tasking ? just joking

[Angmolover]

Originally Posted by JeffLimSS03

Firstly, I came here to seek advice from goodwill samster.
Also did i mention my friend's name or any details about him.
Do you only have one and only friend, i guess so.
Or else why you won't assume it so confidently on my post.

Secondly, my friend also has his choice to decide who shall he be friend with.
He is also mature enough and doesn't need any "goodwill" guy to say how to choose friend.

Don't be an asshole. If someone confide something with u, it means that it's confidential. Even if you don't mention his name or his wife's name, I am sure he would not want to read about his problems on this forum where thousands of other people can read it to.

Your friend is an adult, I presume. Then he can go and solve his own problems by his own means. He don't need u to come here and publicize it. With friends like u, he don't need enemies. If your story about him is real, someone reading it will put one and one together and figure out its him

[JeffLimSS03]

Originally Posted by Angmolover

Don't be an asshole. If someone confide something with u, it means that it's confidential. Even if you don't mention his name or his wife's name, I am sure he would not want to read about his problems on this forum where thousands of other people can read it to.

Your friend is an adult, I presume. Then he can go and solve his own problems by his own means. He don't need u to come here and publicize it. With friends like u, he don't need enemies. If your story about him is real, someone reading it will put one and one together and figure out its him

I seriously feel that you need to get out more often, maybe visit some FLs to loosen up.

By your words, there is no need for "seek help forums" because everyone can put one and one together and figure out everybody who seeked help.

Impressive statement.

I seeked advice with anonymity by sharing an issue, yet out came a keyboard warrior sprouting nonsense about the identify of my friend being blown.

Perhaps i touched on your sensititivity and I wonder, maybe you are that "friend" of mine, that shares the same issue?

[Alcas]

Have to freshen and change things up a bit, grab the butt or a brazen brush the boobs when outside, can add some excitement.

[SirLance]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Does he want to have sex with other ladies? If yes, at least he is sure it's not a physical bodily issue. Is the wife maintaining her beauty and figure well? If not, that could a trigger for the drop in urge. If his wife sleeps outside with other men, will he still get angry? You don't want her so can others want her?

Many in unhappy marriages have this issue, even the ladies. They don't want to have sex with their spouse yet feel hurt and cheated when their spouse solve their sexual needs outside of the marriage.

This also very true.