Would you hit on a married woman?

[NaNaKomatsuOnly]

some very wise man once said
Can Eat dont waste.

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by Freshguy

Was queueing cinnabon with my bro when a woman behind ask us to help her buy 2 more box while she provide the money because 1 person limit 3 box only. She was attractive and cute. Blonde petite, short hair. Said she was buying it for her kids. Help her buy 2 box and said goodbye.

It got me thinking. I myself quite shy very antisocial. Wouldnt hit on a girl much less a married woman out in public. Would any of you hit on a married woman in public?

I am a big believer in Karma, though I have lived long enough to know that it doesn't always work the way we think it should

I always like to think, whether I would like it if the situation is reversed and I know the answer to that is a definite no.

Don't be that guy.

Fun fact: If a man was caught in bed with a married woman and the husband catches them in the act and kills him, the husband will not be charged with murder. Involuntary manslaughter is the typical charge in Singapore and in some other countries, the police will decline to press charges.

[Anonyabc]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

I am a big believer in Karma, though I have lived long enough to know that it doesn't always work the way we think it should

I always like to think, whether I would like it if the situation is reversed and I know the answer to that is a definite no.

Don't be that guy.

Fun fact: If a man was caught in bed with a married woman and the husband catches them in the act and kills him, the husband will not be charged with murder. Involuntary manslaughter is the typical charge in Singapore and in some other countries, the police will decline to press charges.

If the adultery has been ongoing for a while and the husband plotted with intent to kill the man, it may go as murder.

[Freshguy]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

I am a big believer in Karma, though I have lived long enough to know that it doesn't always work the way we think it should

I always like to think, whether I would like it if the situation is reversed and I know the answer to that is a definite no.

Don't be that guy.

Fun fact: If a man was caught in bed with a married woman and the husband catches them in the act and kills him, the husband will not be charged with murder. Involuntary manslaughter is the typical charge in Singapore and in some other countries, the police will decline to press charges.

Well different people have different values. Nice to see some people choose to not be that guy. But if I ever got the chance though, I'd definitely be that guy.

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by Freshguy

Well different people have different values. Nice to see some people choose to not be that guy. But if I ever got the chance though, I'd definitely be that guy.

Sure bro

Just pointing out that it is difficult to predict the seriousness of the reactions of the folks around you, when they find out that you are that guy.

You don't know how the other half will react, and how severely he will react. Some people can turn downright irrational once their wives are fucked by others, so the harm may not only befall you but also those nearest to you.

That's why I never want to be that guy.

[Atedians]

Originally Posted by Freshguy

Was queueing cinnabon with my bro when a woman behind ask us to help her buy 2 more box while she provide the money because 1 person limit 3 box only. She was attractive and cute. Blonde petite, short hair. Said she was buying it for her kids. Help her buy 2 box and said goodbye.

It got me thinking. I myself quite shy very antisocial. Wouldnt hit on a girl much less a married woman out in public. Would any of you hit on a married woman in public?

at most get rejected only.

[ILoveV]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

Sure bro

Just pointing out that it is difficult to predict the seriousness of the reactions of the folks around you, when they find out that you are that guy.

You don't know how the other half will react, and how severely he will react. Some people can turn downright irrational once their wives are fucked by others, so the harm may not only befall you but also those nearest to you.

That's why I never want to be that guy.

bro, i am curious. u dont hit on married woman because you dont think it is right or you dont dare to because of the consequences that might happen?

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by ILoveV

bro, i am curious. u dont hit on married woman because you dont think it is right or you dont dare to because of the consequences that might happen?

Hi bro, I've written about this before. Happy to summarize, since you asked.

My ex-wife had a mental condition which became worse over time, during her manic episodes she would openly hook up with other men and over many years I stayed married for the sake of the kids, but eventually decided to divorce when it became increasingly obvious that her promiscuous behaviour was starting to affect my kids. My daughter once saw her holding hands with another man in a shopping centre nearby my home, and there were other children from the same condo that made fun of my daughter's embarrassed reaction.

Over the many years that I wore a green hat, I grew to understand the familiar pain of having my own wife being fucked by many opportunistic men, in the earlier episodes her mental state did not manifest itself so openly so I reacted quite violently and had some police reports lodged against me, but I never ever got charged once it became obvious to the police what the surrounding circumstances were. Over time, I also became intimately familiar with the legal distinction between VGH (Voluntarily Causing Hurt) vs VCGH (Voluntarily Causing Grievous Hurt).

Over time I stopped caring, since I no longer have sexual relations with the wife but I can appreciate how a husband feels when his wife is violated by another man so I would never wish this kind of pain on another.

But, as TS and many others have said - if they feel they can get away with it and they just act on a basis that these are two consenting adults having some extramarital fun then go ahead.

But, they will never know how the husband/boyfriend will react when their identities are found out. Men (and women) tend to react irrationally and quite violently when an affair is first discovered and the violence is usually directed at the third party no matter how illogical this course of action may be.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Freshguy

Was queueing cinnabon with my bro when a woman behind ask us to help her buy 2 more box while she provide the money because 1 person limit 3 box only. She was attractive and cute. Blonde petite, short hair. Said she was buying it for her kids. Help her buy 2 box and said goodbye.

It got me thinking. I myself quite shy very antisocial. Wouldnt hit on a girl much less a married woman out in public. Would any of you hit on a married woman in public?

if you don't others will. If she doesn't screw you, she will screw others if she's married but available, MBA

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

Hi bro, I've written about this before. Happy to summarize, since you asked.

My ex-wife had a mental condition which became worse over time, during her manic episodes she would openly hook up with other men and over many years I stayed married for the sake of the kids, but eventually decided to divorce when it became increasingly obvious that her promiscuous behaviour was starting to affect my kids. My daughter once saw her holding hands with another man in a shopping centre nearby my home, and there were other children from the same condo that made fun of my daughter's embarrassed reaction.

Over the many years that I wore a green hat, I grew to understand the familiar pain of having my own wife being fucked by many opportunistic men, in the earlier episodes her mental state did not manifest itself so openly so I reacted quite violently and had some police reports lodged against me, but I never ever got charged once it became obvious to the police what the surrounding circumstances were. Over time, I also became intimately familiar with the legal distinction between VGH (Voluntarily Causing Hurt) vs VCGH (Voluntarily Causing Grievous Hurt).

Over time I stopped caring, since I no longer have sexual relations with the wife but I can appreciate how a husband feels when his wife is violated by another man so I would never wish this kind of pain on another.

But, as TS and many others have said - if they feel they can get away with it and they just act on a basis that these are two consenting adults having some extramarital fun then go ahead.

But, they will never know how the husband/boyfriend will react when their identities are found out. Men (and women) tend to react irrationally and quite violently when an affair is first discovered and the violence is usually directed at the third party no matter how illogical this course of action may be.

nothing against you bro, I feel your pain for sure.

Been through alot of similar relationships before marriage during marriage, and I totally understand how you are hurt by it.
You are a great dad, that's what I can see, and you have been scarred by a woman whom you trusted, and did not do her part.
I can also understand the moral part of your discourse and its good faith you are trying to convey.
Unfortunately we live in a fallen world, and as much as we keep ourselves, do the right things, shit happens to good people.
Perhaps that is why sometimes people say, if you can't beat them, join them

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

Fun fact: If a man was caught in bed with a married woman and the husband catches them in the act and kills him, the husband will not be charged with murder. Involuntary manslaughter is the typical charge in Singapore and in some other countries, the police will decline to press charges.

sorry to say bro, as a legally trained person, finished proper legal education, what you say is not true.

I do not want to say more, but the police will not decline to press charges, and the proper check and balance is the statutes and the courts.

if there is a dead body, a homicide, there is no way, it will not move up the chain of command and head towards the courts, the final destination.

If Actus reus and Mens Rea if found for murder, it will be so, if not then partial defences will lessen the conviction downwards.
I don't want to go into penal code and other things, but crimes of passion are not always accepted in the court and never excused.

https://www.todayonline.com/singapor...wifes-ex-lover

[Bodyshop]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Wat about the reverse, wat happens if a married woman hit u ??? ...hahaha

Take it with 1 dick

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

sorry to say bro, as a legally trained person, finished proper legal education, what you say is not true.

I do not want to say more, but the police will not decline to press charges, and the proper check and balance is the statutes and the courts.

if there is a dead body, a homicide, there is no way, it will not move up the chain of command and head towards the courts, the final destination.

If Actus reus and Mens Rea if found for murder, it will be so, if not then partial defences will lessen the conviction downwards.
I don't want to go into penal code and other things, but crimes of passion are not always accepted in the court and never excused.

https://www.todayonline.com/singapor...wifes-ex-lover

Thank you for the education, and for the kind words.

[MisterAW]

Takes two hands to clap. Gotta manage the emotional part~~~

[otamay]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

sorry to say bro, as a legally trained person, finished proper legal education, what you say is not true.

I do not want to say more, but the police will not decline to press charges, and the proper check and balance is the statutes and the courts.

if there is a dead body, a homicide, there is no way, it will not move up the chain of command and head towards the courts, the final destination.

If Actus reus and Mens Rea if found for murder, it will be so, if not then partial defences will lessen the conviction downwards.
I don't want to go into penal code and other things, but crimes of passion are not always accepted in the court and never excused.

https://www.todayonline.com/singapor...wifes-ex-lover

Great insights here, thanks.