BF and i have a normal sex life. I enjoy the sex and intimacy very much and sex with him is one of the best sex i ever had. Usually we have sex twice a week, which i think can be further improved but he is always tired. I also spice up our sex life by wearing sexy lingerie everyday and costumes to arouse him. I bother to give blowjobs and different positions and have suggested outdoor sex. But our sex is still limited to a fixed schedule, I know when it will happen on the very 2 days every week. Sometimes, I try to arouse him by touching him and stripping into my sexy lingerie, but he gets irritated instead because it is simply not the day for sex, says he is tired, not in the mood and gets irritated. He therefore forbids me from touching his vital parts during the “non-sex days” which angers me.
Don’t ask me why. But I am very sure there is no third parties or affairs or FL activities. Let’s just factor this out. BF does watch porn and DIY, I know it because he doesn’t bother to delete the history. He is also into lan games and spend hours after work on them. There was a few months straight I didn’t have sex with him and he did not initiate either. He told me the lack of sex is due to wearing condom, so now we don’t wear a condom and sex frequency is normal.
I really don’t understand why. I am a 25yo attractive woman with good figure (I am a C cup with slim waist) and features and many men will be dying to have me touch them like that or being naughty. Why does he gets irritated instead? I always feel sexy but after my advances were rejected, I felt he is bringing my confidence down. He only likes me to arouse him when he wants sex, and I think it is damn selfish because I don’t even have the rights to touch him? This fills me up with much anger and resentment and now when guys ask me out, I go ahead because I felt pissed (no betrayal involved though and not interested in other guys.) Why does BF have an intimacy issue during “non-sex” days? This is really frustrating and getting to me. We do not have other relationship problems other than this lack of intimacy .
Thanks bros in advance for sharing your opinions. Sorry for the long message.
