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Originally Posted by alea
Great list! Are you married and how do you find time for these many acitivities?
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Married for 20 years liao.
Been snacking for 20 years too.
But not every week. At the beginning was more active.
Then modify the routine to suit the married life.
I am not justifying my actions. I love my wife.
I just cant stop snacking. I dont promise the world to the others.
I dont invest emotionally too. I treat them as pussies but with respect.
And i only hook up with those who are not emotionally needy or weak.
There are a few FWB that dumped me after a few fucks, i have no hard feelings.
Life goes on lah.
In the beginning of my marriage, snacking is only done on weekends.
As the years went by, i established a 'me-time' routine.
Have FWB or not, i will leave the house on the planned slot so that my wife does not suspect.
It takes a lot of planning and acting.
In front of my wife, i dont show enthusiasm on those 'me-time' days.
Just treat it matter-of-factly even if the FWB is too good to miss.
And the bedroom routine with wife has to maintain and dont deviate.